Herpes or ingrown? Nervous

I noticed this bump after shaving my privates yesterday evening. It didn’t hurt to touch, just very firm.

I tried to pop it (sort of worked, blood came out and some liquid that resembled oil) and the bump went down. But it’s still kind of there

Now it is a little more painful when touched (I assume from trying to pop it). It has been less than 24 hours and has already started to go down, but I haven’t had an ingrown in that particular area (in my perinium or whatever) since as long as I can remember.

Any opinions would be great. Can’t get doc appointment till Tuesday

I’ve been shaving that area consistently and hardly let the hair grow back before shaving again, but I’ve also been sexually active. I feel like my partner would tell me and I trust him but you never know.

Right after trying to pop

Couple hours after trying to pop