PREGNANCY SCARE! HELP!

please help. i’m a 14 year old girl who started her period may of this year. i am not sexually active but i have done things close to sex. he hasn’t been inside of me but he has been close. but we always try with a condom it just never worked out for us. this was the last days of may when my period ended. even tho we had a condom on i cant help but think pre cum could still get me pregnant. i think i am spotting and my stomach has been getting a little bloated and painful. i got my period last month but it seemed dark red almost brownish red. i don’t know if it was my period or if it was spotting but it lasted about 5-7 days like my normal period. i got it again this month but it came earlier than my normal period. i’m not really too worried cause periods can be irregular but still very scared and i’m too scared to take a test. i need help identify my symptoms