FTM, how was your first 4- 6 weeks with a newborn?

i’m a ftm mom and i’m just curious on other people experiences. i know it all depends on baby and support system but i’m still curious.

some questions i have (but not limited to)

- how did you adjust to being a mom

- did you experience PPD or baby blues?

- how was your support? did you wish you have more/ less

- did you focus on milestones or just try to keep baby happy/healthy

- how did you make time for yourself

- how was it to return to school/ work

- did you breast fed or use formula? what help you decide ?

- how did you make time for yourself or what did you do to relax?

- when did you feel confident and comfortable with baby?

- did you just instantly get that “im a mother, i know what i have to do feelings”

- was baby fussy, get sick or unable to sleep or pooh during these 4-6 weeks how did you deal with it?

- if baby was sent to daycare at 6 weeks how did you take it?

- how long did it take you to adjust to your body?