My close friends know that we are going through a tough time. I’m currently taking Clomid and have been ttc for over a year. Two of my close friends have babies, and most of my circle just doesn’t know how to talk to me. I’ve made it abundantly clear to them and some family members that I’m struggling, I need distractions, and even suggested a day trip to the lake. I need more help, but nobody knows how to give it to me. I can’t see myself just texting everyone: “hey guys, check up on me once a week! Invite me out!” Because when they do, I’ll feel as though it’s not genuine. Or just out of pity. Going through infertility with friends and family who don’t get it really sucks.

I could reach out to other support groups, find an infertile tribe, etc. but that’s not me. I’m introverted, I trust very few, and now those few have let me down.