Losing my virginity and having an orgasm

So I'm a virgin and I really wanna lose my Virginity to see what it feel like, i always seeing it in shows and read it in books and so many different people talking about it and it makes me want to (I'm 16 ) the main reason is bc I wanna feel what it's like to have an orgasm so.... Any tips or things I could do to have an orgasm without having sex?!? Or tips on masterbation or things I could use bc I tried the fingers and ig I'm not doing something right?? Ughhh help plzz!!