His freaking face hurts me

If we are having missionary or if we are in any position where his face is touching my skin it freaking rubs my skin off. It’s like rubbing my face against sand paper he thinks I’m like rejecting him because he’ll be all wanting to kiss my neck and lips but Jesus Christ his facial hair! Has me moving my head and neck away from him and telling him during sex that his face is hurting me. Oh my god it hurts. And I tell him so he shaves and somehow that makes the problem worse. It goes from sand paper to cactus. Like my neck is raw from it right now. I tell him to please not feel bad about it because he can’t help having facial hair but it’s an actual problem😭 I could post a picture of my neck right now and you’d be like “oh shit.”

Anyone else?

Edit: I tell him to grow a beard but when he does he has like bald patches in his beard and it makes him feel self conscious even though you only notice it when he points it out