I’d like some advice. Me and my SO have been for almost 18 months. We have one daughter together and recently found out I’m pregnant. I have an older daughter from a previous relationship.

About a month or so ago I went through his phone and found where he was messaging around girl trying to talk to her. She more or less shut him down and didn’t respond.

We are not friends on Facebook because i deleted him some time last year and he won’t add me back. He has his account set to private so in order to look at his page, i have to log into someone else’s account.

When i go to check, he’s always sharing posts that make it look like he’s single. The latest one being, “If I’m liking your posts, inbox me then. I have something to tell you.” I screenshotted the post and sent it to him asking him why he would post stuff like this knowing he has a girlfriend. I didn’t get a response. It just so happens, this one particular female, the one he was messaging, has been liking the majority of his posts when it’s related to something like that. So this morning I decided to send her a message letting her know that if he had been trying to talk to her that he wasn’t single.

In the 18 months we’ve been together, we’ve had numerous problems with other females, most of the time it was his ex but never anything like this.

He has all the notifications turned off on his phone so no messages pop up.

I’ve been dealing with a lot from him and I’m to the point that I’m physically and emotionally exhausted.