My Dom wants other Subs

What should I do? I am in a very committed D/s relationship and have been for a while but my Dom has recently brought up that he would like to have more subs. I’m a pretty jealous type when it comes to my Dom so I’m not sure if I will like it. I just need some advice.

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Me

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Sit down and ask to talk about it (if you're in a dynamic where you're 24/7, ask if you two can speak freely about it) Be respectful but also express your concerns, it might be you two are heading in different directions and it's better to find out sooner than later

Ve

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You do not have to agree to a non- monogamous arrangement if you're uncomfortable with it. It doesn't make you "vanilla" or "old-fashioned" – it's just your boundaries! I'd talk to him and express these concerns, and if you don't feel heard or he insists on opening the relationship, then he's not worth it!!!

Ma

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Sorry if I’m dumb, what is dom?

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30nightsofviolence • Jul 17, 2019
Dom = Dominatrix, Dominant, Dominator. And Sub = submissive