Anyone else feeling behind on transitions?

Ta

So my little guy is turning one on the 26th and I feel like we are trying to do a few transitions at once and it should’ve been a while ago. We are trying to get him used to falling asleep on his own during the night instead of me taking him out and feeding him. 🤦🏻‍♀️ that’s hard and weaning him off formula, I think he is ready. Transitions with him, I have always gotten the feeling of when to do it. I don’t know if I’m ready for that just because my husband STILL does NOT feed him regular food during the day. I seriously feel like I will have to get a dry erase board and write down what to feed him for breakfast, snack, and lunch, and will more than likely have to put everything in little containers for portion and keep them out for the day. 😩 I really feel like we should’ve started this a while ago. I do feed him regular food and all that stuff 3 days out of the week when I am off work. So he does get regular food when I’m home. I keep thinking I should be at home with him for a couple years instead of working.