So I was raised by my father and he passed when I was 14 years old. My mother was around but I didn’t live with her until he got sick. She was too busy running around trying to live life instead of being there for her kids. Now she never wants to admit to it and apologize. Shes struggling to this day and she’s almost 50, smokes weed all day, treats her supposed to be man like a bitch, and doesn’t think she does anything wrong. Never had to pay for shit until her parents and my father passed. She makes up these lies like she was working while we were with our dad yet we still struggled and barely saw her. Now that i’m 23, with my own child, I’m noticing all the narcissism within her & it’s really making me mad that she doesn’t think I don’t remember my childhood. She always taking credit for how her children are when she wasn’t even there. Now that our father isn’t here I guess she thinks there is no one to correct her or call out her lies. She helps me with daughter with baby sitting but she has so much negativity in her house. God forbid anyone call her out for being wrong and she’ll resent you forever. I have anxiety & it’s really playing over & over how immature, mean, selfish, irresponsible & delusional she is... idk what to do. i’m ready to just go off let her know she wasn’t shit and move on.