So my first son was born September 7th 2018. I’m due September 28th with this baby. Both pregnancies I measured ahead. Didn’t take it too seriously. But my first was born almost 2 weeks early. So I’m worried this baby will come early and I will have him on my oldest birthday.

Normally it wouldn’t have mattered much, not the ideal situation but we would have worked it out. But since my oldest passed, his birthday is a very dear thing. I don’t know if I could handle having any child share his birthday or be born on his death day.

I know logically there is a slim chance of it being that day, but I’m freaking out and I don’t know how to calm my anxiety about it. Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated