Erectile Disfunction Effects

My OBGYN gave us the go ahead to start trying (ive been off BC for about a year but we haven’t been having anywhere near enough BDing to conceive) and told me he would give me clomid or femara later on if need be. I have PCOS and am overweight so I was nervous about being able to be put on clomid, let alone able to carry a healthy pregnancy.

Now that we’re finally really ready to give it ago after all the prep work on my end: diet, supplements, bloodwork, doctors visits, etc.: my husband is struggling with ED and I am heartbroken. It’s the most frustrating thing because he will be able to maybe once a week, so we can’t get into a rhythm.

So now we have to put it on the back burner, again. We have to wait for him to go through whatever treatment he may need. I feel like I’m running out of time. I have PCOS. I’m 30. He is 40. It just feels like a race against the clock. Clomid and femara won’t help if there’s no sperm ;(.

I just needed to vent. Has anyone else been through ED. Was treatment effective?