Serious question

Phara

How many days is to late for AF?

How long did it take you to get BFP after AF went missing?

AF is currently 9days LATE? and I tested this morning with SMU (second morning urine) and for a BFN!

I’m currently 37days into my cycle and I’m usually 28days regular cycle.

I’m so lost and confused! Idk if I ovulated late or I’m dying. Somebody give me hope please!

When should I give up hope that I can get a BFP?