Baby Name Drama, please read before voting

So a friend of mine, who I’ve been friends with since I was like 6 or 7 knew that I was going to name my daughter with the middle name Rose. Every name I’ve ever come up with the middle name was Rose. Once I got married and both of us were pregnant I confided in her that I was going to name my daughter if I had one Trinity Rose. She ended up having a girl and named her Everly Rose. Whatever, it’s a middle name, so who cares. Now I’m pregnant again and have moved to another state over 1,000 miles away, so it’s not like we see each other more than a couple times a year. The name I want to use is Emberlee Grace or Emberlee Faith, and I mentioned it to her when I was back home visiting, she threw an absolute fit. I didn’t even consider what her kid’s name was because she’s not really as much a part of our lives anymore. Yes we’re still friends, but I love this name. My question is, is it too close, and I should just pick something else or does she just need to get over it?