So I’ve been seeing a guy for about a month now. We have gone on 4 dates to either get something to eat, to the museum or just hung out at his place. He says he likes me and thinks we mesh well with our similar hobbies, goals, and morals. But throughout each date he doesn’t flirt really. I think we hugged once and it was after the first date/meet up.

I once said our date was a “plan”and he quickly corrected me saying that we were going on a date, date. With things cleared that he and I both are definitely interested in each other and prefer relationships than hooking up I just can’t help but think about how unflirty he is with me.

He’s a nerdy guy, and a bit soft spoken but he he’s very outgoing and expressive with me it’s just he’s never made a move. Not to hold my hand, not to kiss me. Just tonight we had a game night and he actually playfully touched my shoulder and arm but other than that nothing.

I was at his place for the first time and a I thought he’d try to like kiss me or something but nothing. We talked a bit and played video games then out I went.

I usually don’t make the first move with guys but I also don’t want to scare him into thinking I wanna move quick and like have sex. I like him and y’all I literally never in my entire life just craved the smallest intimacy like holding hands. I literally just want to at least hold his hand....then of course move into something more serious haha.

But I don’t know what to do. Idk if he seriously likes me or not. What do you think?