My bf and i have been fighting a lot lately. i’m 32 weeks pregnant and he got furious with me when i told him i was going to give her my last name (one we aren’t married & two we’ve been fighting like cats and dogs lately so i don’t want her to have his last name if we are just going to fight all the time or break up). He told me “after you have our daughter i’m going to kill you” out of no where. i know i should take it seriously because who the hell would say something like that but why would he say that?! i am so thrown off by it and worried. i told him after he said that there was no way he’d be seeing her when she’s born & his response was “you won’t see her either, you won’t see anyone” i don’t know if he’s joking TRYING to be funny but it’s not and i’m worried. what should i do? he didn’t say this stuff over text so i can’t save it to show it to anyone.