Divorce question

I don’t know how to start this post. I feel so lost but here’s a little backstory:

My husband decided to leave the Gulf and come back to our hometown to be closer to family. Over there, he was making money and had a decent job. We wer living well and had our freedom. Now he came back here and we basically live off his family until he starts Making his own again, which you never know when. I don’t like that my husband has no money of his own and I feel like I have zero freedom.

Lately we’ve been fighting about everything. I just don’t feel I love him nor does he love me anymore.

How hard is it to divorce and start over? We’ve been together for 8 years and I just don’t know who I am anymore. I don’t like the way he treats me. And I feel like his broken all my wings. And I don’t like the way he treats me in front of his family. We are very incompatible.