Hello ladies! I’m just looking for some advice or guidance/words of wisdom.

Most evenings I’ll have some ‘me time’ just before going to sleep, it’s something that relaxes me, helps me sleeps, and I look forward to it. I’ve never ever had issues with climaxing, I usually can get myself there within 5 minutes, sometimes longer if I want to drag it out, but it’s always a good finish. I have a few toys that I’ll pick from depending what mood I’m in.

However the last 3/4 nights I’ve taken over 20 minutes to get there, and when I do it’s a half orgasm and it’s unsatisfying. I’m so confused as to why this is happening and it’s very deflating. My mind is struggling to ‘think sexy’, if that makes sense? It keeps wondering onto everything else going on in life at the moment.

Has anyone else experienced this?