Hey guys just looking for a bit of advice, there’s this guy I’ve been talking to and idk if I like him fr but he has this reputation for being a bit of a wannabe fuckboy (tbf that comes from something that happened when we were 13 and the girl who spread it isn’t a very reliable source). Anyway he’s trying to get stuff happening with me and he’s actually been taking it pretty seriously and trying to prove I can trust him.

Anyway he definitely wants something with me but neither of us know if we wanna date or be fwb or something. Im definitely sexually attracted to him but idk how well we’d work as a couple bc I’m not sure he can fulfil my emotional needs. I’m 17 and I’m still a virgin and so is he and tbh at this point I kinda just wanna get it over with. It’d be nicer to do it with someone I rly love but I don’t have anyone like that and I don’t wanna be a virgin when I go to uni. So I’m wondering what yall think of losing it to a fwb? Is it a bad idea? Will it ruin the friendship?