So I've been dating my best boyfriend since late highschool and and we started dating about for about 2 years. We are 28 now. Our relationship is a love/hate, but we do love eachother. He considers himself a 3 and says I'm his 11. Yet he doesnt seem to fully trust me. He travels for work and I only see him on weekends or if his job is close sometimes he gets to come home throughout the week.

I only have one main girlfriend I hangout with and work with. All I do is work and go home and if I have other plans I always text him about what I'm I'm doing, goin and who I'm with. I'm aware that he has trust issues from his past relationships so I make sure that he has no reason to not trust me. He even knows the passcode to me phone (all access). I dont have anything to hide.

Again we are aware that guys will be guys and I have dudes complimenting me and guy friends playfully flirt with me, which I just let go over my head and dont pay other guys any mind, and which I dont hide from my boyfriend. But he insists on looking through my phone while I'm sleeping or if we go out and drink he wants to texts random guys on my social and make empty accusations which turn into arguments and then are resolved after me calming him down and giving him rationalizations of the situation.

Note we've been dating for 2 years. These fights happen more then often and get worse for no reason... idk if his insecurities are getting the best of him or am I doing something wrong?... I've been trying to tell him that I'm with him and only him and he should just ignore the mindless flirting of others... but I can only go through this stressful cycle for so long but idk what to do.....Help?...