So I had a really good friend throughout high school. After school her and her boyfriend moved to another state and we still talk everyday and see each other once a year. We are now in our mid 20s.

We are still friends but she had completely changed as a person. She has cheated on her boyfriend a few times and it’s definitely a one way street of cheating because I don’t believe he would ever cheat on her. I feel awful for her boyfriend but I don’t say anything and just mind my own business.

She just asked me if she can come visit and stay at my house for a few days just her not her boyfriend. I instantly thought this was weird because she always comes and visits with her boyfriend not alone.

I then find out I’m just a cover and a place to stay because she met a guy online and he happens to live near me and they have been talking and sexting and she is coming to spend time and probably hook up with him.

I am completely against cheating and so is my husband who doesn’t really like her because I tell him about what she does. My husband is kinda friends with her boyfriend because they get along and hang out when she comes and visits me. He doesn’t tell her boyfriend because I told him not to since he is not even supposed to know.

So my question is how would you handle this situation would you let her come to your house and do whatever she is going to do. Or make up a excuse and say she can’t stay here even though I’m sure she will just find somewhere else to stay (possibly the online guys house). What would you do?

Update- I realize a lot of people will say completely drop her as a friend but even though I hate what she does to her boyfriend she is still a great friend to me. Me and my husband own a business and she works in advertisement she has done a lot of work for us for free completely out of the kindness of her heart. She is always there as a friend when I need her and even sends me a anniversary gift every year for mine and my husbands anniversary. It’s actually crazy what I nice and thoughtful person she is to me but then when it comes to her boyfriend she does him so wrong. Just for the record I have told her multiple times she should break up with her boyfriend since that’s not love but unfortunately even though agrees she still stays