I checked my cervix like yesterday and it was to the left and up.high and felt firm...

We did the BD today early morning and I cramped so bad the whole time to where it was almost unbearable... I checked my cervix again few hrs later and it shifted to the center and was facing back and was so far up I could barely reach it... I read you shouldnt rely on checking your cervix as a sign of pregnancy but I'm just trying to figure out a d get to know my body... but I feel like maybe im not lucky this month either 😔