Self esteem

This guy I know has been trying to talk to me since I met him. I finally decided to to message him years later as a friend to get to know him. We set up a day to meet then he canceled. Then we set another up lol and he canceled. Also he'll tell me to call him and when I do he doesn't answer? Which happened like 10 times. He views all my social media stuff as if he's watching me 🤷‍♀️ I feel a way because I was interested my feelings were kinda hurt? Even though I deleted him, why do y'all think he was acting this way? It's slightly weighing on my self esteem

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Mo

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Why are you giving this dude the ability to lessen your opinion of yourself? The definition of self-esteem is the opinion you have of yourself. That opinion does not rely on others. Self-esteem comes from SELF! You know who you are and you know you are a great girl! If you know that, then just stop messing around with this dude who is obviously toying with you. Move on.

Mo

Mo • Jul 20, 2019
Why do I think he was acting that way… Because he’s an asshole. You’re awesome and he sucks. Period.

De

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He sounds like a waste of your time. Please don’t Perdue him any further or allow him to weasel back in and then do the same thing to you again. Sounds like he’s using you for validation or doesn’t know what he wants or is playing games but none is worth your time haha

Al

Alissa • Jul 21, 2019
He just texted me this morning. I did not reply blocked again lol because he is playing with me hard