How did you create boundaries??

I’m 36 weeks and my pregnancy have been stress free for the most part. FYI also I’m single. Only my close family and people I see every day knew I was pregnant. Family wise just my mom, grandparents and a few uncles and couple cousins cause I see them everyday.

I’m a very private person and like to be left alone but decided let me share on Facebook so others can know before baby come. Well since than cousins who I was close with when I was young but haven’t seen in over two years been blowing up my phone, asking all personal questions, when I don’t answer they call though Facebook messanger. I know people are curious but it’s been real intrusive. Asking baby names and mad when I don’t say, asking who the daddy is and how this happened. Asking am I’m going to do this natural, asking am I on wic?. etc. again these are people I haven’t seen or spoken to in like two years.

Now I found out my aunt and one of my cousins been talking and telling the other family members everything. Every hour it’s a phone call or a left message and when I do answer just ton of questions.

I didn’t want a baby shower but I found out they planning one and I don’t want one and they didn’t even ask. Then they trying to decide baby names for me cause they want to get a blanket made.

This might seem sensitive but I’m at wits in. My whole pregnancy was stress free until this and I think I want to include in my birth plan now no visitors except for a few certain people.