So I have been dating this guy for awhile and we haven’t done anything because I’m not ready. He understands that but I still feel bad for not wanting to do anything. He also now knows why I’m not ready (I was sexually assaulted) and he just wants me to do what I think is best. He says he is willing to wait but I don’t know, I just don’t want him to leave me/cheat on me because I won’t do one thing. What can I do to make him happy without having sex? (I know oral is an option but I just don’t know if I’m ready for that either)