I am 31 years old and my husband and I have a daughter that just turned 5 this month. We wanted to wait a few years after our first since she was a surprise so we could be in a better place financially. I also had horrible postpartum. Having more children has always been important to us.

I have been told by my doctor that having pcos and a tilted uterus means I probably will not conceive as easily the second time. We haven’t prevented pregnancy for more than two years. My husband just starts to panic when I talk about trying REALLY trying to conceive. I’m just looking for help or possible experience with helping him understand and be more comfortable with out feeling like I’m trying to convince him. I’m just talking about beginning steps. Like taking vitamins and using preseed. Maybe even ovulation strips with out him spiraling about wanting to have a bigger house and more money saved and not knowing if now is the right time. I appreciate ANY advice you guys have. ❣️