“Spoiling” my son

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My son is 5 months old and he’s my first child. My family keeps getting on me for how much I hold him and pay attention to him. They say I’m spoiling him. How can I spoil a baby with love and affection? I know when he’s older he can become clingy, but he’s only this small for so long so I’m going to enjoy my cuddles with him for as long as I can. I just wanted to get this off my chest lol. Anyone else’s family say this to them?