I can’t masturbate with my hands???!!!

I cannot feel pleasure unless I am wearing denim pants and the seam of the pants is directly on my clit and then I sit and rub it and it feels sorta good??? And then my panties get damp/wet and then arousal fluid comes out of me, or at least I think it is. It is slimy and clear and stretchy. Anyway, am I even masturbating correctly? And if I try to stimulate myself with hands I won’t feel pleasure. How do I do this properly? And yes, I am touching my clit and I am not touching the clit hood. I have tried different pressures, speeds, movements, and nothing really works and I have especially not orgasmed. What to do?