Am I over reacting?

My friend met an influencer at a fan meet and I had this feeling he didn’t want to interact with her (which is fine I guess) but when I watched his YouTube I heard him saying how much he respects females but then he was doing smash and pass videos, ask his friend if he’ll hook up with a fan, say he’s a virgin, etc. He was also doing a video with another YouTuber that has disabilities and she kept Trynna kiss him and admitted that she has a crush on him and he was laughing at her, and trying to make her look bad, you could also tell he was uncomfortable by her but he was still acting nice to her. He also posted on his insta a video and the song said “I could fuck you like a pro” or something like that; with him shirtless and his mom follows him but doesn’t care. (He also talks about how much he loves his mother) He also dated a girl that did tik tok and she would twerk on there and hoe around. People said that he was too old for her (he’s 18 she’s 11-14). He also has gf now and he messaged my friend “I love you” in the dm and she screenshot it and post it so there’s proof of it.

This just upsets me a lot because he actually seemed like he has respect for girls and I felt really happy watching his videos and everything but then I thought about it and now my like for him dropped a ton. I haven’t met him but it just upsets me that he acts so respectable then he’s not.