i’m really into the dom/sub kink and i’ve mentioned it before to my boyfriend. we’ve tried to get rougher before and it’s a complete turn on for me. but he doesn’t take it very far like i hoped for. he’ll lightly smack my face and choke me but i want to be tied up and blindfolded and he’s like afraid of it or something. i don’t try to pressure him into it. if it happens it happens but if he’s not into it i’m fine too. i just wish he would explore with me more.