Okay so before i start this please no hate comments, so my daughter is 8 weeks old today , my pregnancy was rough i was very sick & i got diagnosed with gestational diabetes so i was more than ready for that to be over lol! Me and my daughters father didnt plan a baby so this was a big surprise especially cause i was only 16 when i found out and faar from ready for the responsibility of having a child (he was 20). Me and her dad werent together at the time so i called him over and told him he then told me that he has another girl who is saying she is pregnant 🤦🏾‍♀️ i was crushed , but there was nothing i could do about it. He promised me at that moment that i wouldnt be in this alone and ever since then ive only seen him a handful of times. So my pregnancy goes on and he never makes one doctors appt or ultrasound, despite him promising me on multiple occasions he would come and then not texting me back at the last minute. He would call every once in a while but only to argue with me and add extra stress to my life. When i found out i was getting induced i texted him and told him i was going that night, and he left my message on seen. He texts me waay later that night to tell me he is an hour away and will come down in the morning and be here when i have her... which never happened. He didnt even come to the hospital. i have known him for 4 years now and the way he switched up on me as soon as i got pregnant was so crazy i never would have expected this. It took him 2 weeks to even come meet her for the first time. At that point i didnt even want him to come but i just thought mabeyy if he sees her things will be different. But they werent. She is now 8 weeks old he has only seen her 3 times. But when i say anything about him not caring he goes off on me, Like What ?! Im also not trying to make this about money cause if he was atleat involved in her life i wouldn't care but he hasnt got one single thing for her , hasnt helped out with ANYTHING , Hasnt contributed a single penny . And babies are expensive!!! So i get a call out of nowhere a couple days ago from him i answer and hes being rude as fuuck and starts threatening me saying hes going to pull up to my house and beat my ass , then he says " im coming to pick up my daughter " . Call me what you want cause i said hell no ! Am i wrong? I do not trust him with my baby she is too young, and keep in mind this boy does not have a place to live or a car he would have probably had one of his girls or something come get her and bring her to some trap house. I dont want my baby around smoke or anything negative i do everything in my power to be the best momma i can be to her. I told him he could come see her whenever and if he had a stable place for her to come i would let her go see him but he doesnt ! And he has only seen her a couple times he doesnt know what her hungry cry is or when she needs a nap , etc . Idk this has just been weighing on me heavy cause hes saying im keeping my daughter from him but im just scared to let him take her. I want my baby to have a father but not a half assed one ! I don't understand his logic , correct me if im wrong though. Ughh 😩 what do i do ?