Hi! So how do I get my creamy cum out of mee and not squirt and instead make it sticky under mee by fingering myself and what not?

Like how do i get my creamy cum out of me and not squirt and make it too wet or will squirting be better to make my cum sticky?

How do I get my sticky cum to show too when he is fucking mee vaginally? Or do i need an anal plug or Something to do any of this and make me cum maybe stickier?