My ex and I broke up a few months ago. It was a very mature break up, we both knew things weren’t going as they should be and we split.

He went back home to the UK and I work on a yacht so I’ve been living onboard and I’ve been busy all summer.

Here’s the catch.. SO THERES THIS GUY. He works onboard with me and we see each other everyday as we literally live on the same boat.

Since we met, it was an obvious mutual attraction, after my ex and I broke it off, we started to flirt a little here and there. It was helping in all honesty, it took my mind off of my ex and my dog and the apartment I’m going to have to go home too in a months time and it made me feel alive again. My sex life with my ex had completely dwindled by the end, once a week, pretty much planned and the same 3 positions.

Fast forward a few months and the guy I work with and I are balls deep in a sexual relationship, the sex is fucking unbelievable. A man has never made me so wet and I can make him come so easily on top, it’s just crazy good sex.

When we first started having sex, we both knew the timing was off but as I’ve gotten to know him, my feelings have inevitably grown. His have too but he’s still saying about the wrong timing and bla bla bla.

I know it’s not an ideal situation, I mean fuck, my partner and I broke up recently and we were together for three years. I was supposed to have a lone wolf period and here I am, swooning.

Basically, what the fuck do I do? Do I break this off now? If so, how! As previously stated, we live on a 45 metre boat together and the season doesn’t end until the beginning of September when we will both resume our normal lives.

I guess I just don’t want to be left behind if he decides he doesn’t want to keep me in his.

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Sorry for the essay, some of my friends don’t want to hear about this situation because they liked my ex so much 🙁