So my parents have always been very protective of me usually too much. I’m 15 going to be 16 in a month and I’ve been dating this guy for 10 months she started to be less protective and finally let me go over to his house but his mom always has to watch us and his siblings should be around. It made me really happy because before I couldn’t even go to the movies alone with him since she and my little brother would always tag along. But the last time I went over his mom fell asleep and had to leave for a few minutes to go pick up her dog that she had left at the vet since they have a play park for dogs. They close at 5 and she had to rush since she only had 5 minutes to pick him up. I was terrified because she left us alone and my mom would be upset. I texted my mom instantly as she left and we both went and sat outside of the house on the driveway until she came. I even sent her photos as proof before she came that we were out there. He wanted to go inside and get something but I made him stay outside until she came but even then she was mad after all that. He went to Brazil for a month (it’s where he is from) and ever since he came back she has not let me go back there . Every time I have asked she has said no and that he can come here. But see that’s the thing at my home it’s very uncomfortable because my dad will stare us down and my brother won’t leave us alone (he has autism so he can be a little difficult ) last time he was climbing all over him and throwing fits and accidentally hit him in the groin. It’s just hard if you understand to enjoy that time with all those things going on. When my dads home we won’t even sit near each other because it’s that uncomfortable. So for the last 3 times she has said no and this last time she asked instead of saying no you can’t because we are busy tomorrow but you can go Saturday she said no but he can come Saturday. She knows I feel uncomfortable here I have told her many times. I’m just worried at this point that her saying no but letting my boyfriend come over will affect the relationship and the relationship between me and his mother. I’m worried she will think it’s rude and disrespectful that her son can go to our house but she doesn’t allow me to go to theirs. So what do you think am I just overthinking it or is my mom being a little too controlling? I’d appreciate some advice !😁