pan or bi

i hope i don’t offend anybody with what im about to say. okay idk if im pan or bi. i’ve always told people that i was pan but now i don’t know. i don’t think i’d do any sexual stuff with a trans person but i would date them. but sometimes sex comes with dating somebody but if i wouldn’t have sex with a trans person would that automatically make me bi? but at the same time i’ve heard that transgenders don’t like to be labeled as transgender is like relationships they just want to be boy and girl and that’s all. i don’t even know how to explain myself and i really don’t want to hurt anybody’s feelings🥺but im not super educated on this and i need help so can i get some ??