Husband in ICU

Nyd

I rushed my husband to the ER for a severe headache and found out he has a brain aneurysm(bleeding in the brain). They will be keeping him for 2 weeks and could be having surgery today. Need some advice about what to do with my baby. I work full time so do I bring him with me ? Leave him with relatives? The hospital is 40min from home and I actually work very close to the hospital he’s at now. My mind is everywhere sorry.

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JD

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Oh my... im so sorry you’re going thru this. Sending prayers your way. I would def leave your baby with a trusted family member or friend. I’m not sure where you’re located but here in CA we have FMLA or paid family leave where you can take a leave of absence for work and collect disability for times like this. I would talk with your Hr, see if you qualify and do that so you could be with your husband, if that’s the route you’d rather go. Either way I’d see if someone could keep your baby while this is all happening. Baby will be fine, but being in the hospital is scary. Although your husband is in the perfect place for him right now, he may want you there. Again, sending positive thoughts and prayers your way. If you do have paid family leave in your area and you didn’t use it all for your “bonding after baby” you have a year after birth to use it.

Ra

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Such horrible news and I'm very very sorry. I send many prayers your way for God to touch the doctors hands and for him to pull through just fine. I would defend they to have family or a friend you trust to take the little one for awhile you need to focus properly on what's going on and as a mother I know you worry about your children but everything will be ok for him to be with someone family or friend wise for a little bit. You got this mama your strong and your husband is even stronger to fight this. Sending my love your way and many prayers.
Such horrible news and I'm very very sorry. I send many prayers your way for God to touch the doctors hands and for him to pull through just fine. I would defend they to have family or a friend you trust to take the little one for awhile you need to focus properly on what's going on and as a mother I know you worry about your children but everything will be ok for him to be with someone family or friend wise for a little bit. You got this mama your strong and your husband is even stronger to fight this. Sending my love your way and many prayers.Such horrible news and I'm very very sorry. I send many prayers your way for God to touch the doctors hands and for him to pull through just fine. I would defend they to have family or a friend you trust to take the little one for awhile you need to focus properly on what's going on and as a mother I know you worry about your children but everything will be ok for him to be with someone family or friend wise for a little bit. You got this mama your strong and your husband is even stronger to fight this. Sending my love your way and many prayers.Such horrible news and I'm very very sorry. I send many prayers your way for God to touch the doctors hands and for him to pull through just fine. I would defend they to have family or a friend you trust to take the little one for awhile you need to focus properly on what's going on and as a mother I know you worry about your children but everything will be ok for him to be with someone family or friend wise for a little bit. You got this mama your strong and your husband is even stronger to fight this. Sending my love your way and many prayers.

Ra

Ra • Jul 26, 2019
Definitely * not defend🤦‍♀️ sorry

Ca

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So sorry to hear this! Would your work let you bring him in? If so, that sounds convenient, however youd be juggling work and parenting at the same time. If you have relatives that could watch him that would be what I would do personally. If they live out of the way maybe they could meet you at work to give you a break?