Annoying aunties

So I won’t to name my daughter Ray’onna but to of my daughter auntie on her dad said keep trying to get me to spell it rae’onna or Rai’onna but I have told the several times I don’t like those spelling but thy keep pushing it saying the way I spell ray is for a boy but I look it up different ways to spell it and the way I spell it all ready is up there with the other two kind of need advice becuz it’s getting very annoying aht this point they keep pushing for me to change the way I like it spelled