How do I explain this and do any of you understand?

I have auditory processing problem and my ears are extremely sensitive. I hate listening to loud music in my house or my car but I like concerts. It’s contradicting but let me explain. In the house or the car it’s like the pitch of the sounds coming from the speaker is like needles in my ears and it hurts and it’s overwhelming. Concerts sound completely different, it’s surround sound. It’s not just coming from one direction and a few speakers it’s everywhere so instead of being overwhelmed by sounds coming from one direction, it’s all around me I get completely into it. Yes, it’s extremely loud for me without ear plugs but it’s euphoric because it’s not driving me to madness. It’s more immersive to my ears instead of just “BAM BAM BAM” coming from one direction. In my own home, I use headphones and listen to 8D music

You get me. I hope, does that make any sense at all? Im trying to explain this to my so, I don’t like loud music but I want to go to a 21 pilots concert next year and I’m trying to explain this. I just don’t know if I can make it make sense. He thinks I would be way too overwhelmed to even be there.