Had my baby on the 24th and it was a traumatizing birth. I have a 3rd degree perineal tear and I don’t know what’s worse than this😭😭😭 Lord HELP ME!!! I dread peeing and most of the time my body won’t even let me pee because it tenses up from the burn. I can handle all of the other post birth stuff but this is so horrible. I just can’t deal!! Feeling like you have to pee so bad but your body just tenses up instantly when the first dribble comes out from the burn. Ugh I’ve tried all the advice people have gave me and nothing helps this. I’m sorry I just needed to vent . Don’t get me wrong . My angel baby is worth all of this. But he’ll probably be an only child after this experience . Just look at his sweet face 💙