Let me start by saying, I love my husband. He loves me. We are recently married as of four months ago. Been together over 2 years. I’m 24, he’s 29. And we JUST had a pregnancy scare. At least it started out that way. It wasn’t until after that I realized how badly I want to be a mom. I’m ready. He isn’t. He wasn’t mad at the thought of a child right now but he wants to be ready ready. When is anyone ready for a parenthood!? So the advice needed ladies is this, do I tell him I’m ditching birth control and we can use condoms until we’re “ready ready” or should I continue with my bc? I’m over the sore breasts, mood swings, exhaustion. I worry that being on this bc will effect how long it takes us to get pregnant and I want it out of my body. No, I’m not going to trick him into parenthood but jeez! I’m also worried he’s going to take the birth control conversation as a way to get pregnant. I feel like I can’t win!