He stopped giving oral 😩

I’ve dated my boyfriend for alittle over a year which he used to perform oral sex and now he doesn’t ,doesn’t even care to do any foreplay !!!! I’m tired of pleasuring myself and would really like for someone to go to town 🤤down town if you know what i mean.

i don’t know what do to do I’ve already asked multiple times and it’s starting to get embarrassing to be told eventually when eventually never comes should i dump him or find a willing participant?