No AF 16 days late

Ashley • Expecting my first Rainbow miracle ❤️🌈Two babies in heaven👶🏽👶🏽•Wife💍•NY🗽

So my last AF was june 14th lasted 2 weeks first week was mostly spotting, I didn’t track anything last month as we were on vacation and I wanted to be stress free, and since I haven’t really been thinking about it I notice I’m 16 days late. My cycles are somewhat irregular, but I have been having lower back pain, cramping, shortness of breath, mood swings, and fatigued mostly in the afternoons. Today is my Husbands Birthday and we decided to wait and test this weekend I am to scared to test as I’ve had 2 losses last year!