Anal Sex? Help a Girl Out!

Question

My boyfriend and I both want to try anal. Does anyone have advice on how to make it better and not have a “mess” to clean up? Any advice on how to “clear” myself out for lack of better words? Any advice would be helpful!

Answer

USE LUBE!! Even if u dont have to for vaginal sex, remember that the butthole doesn’t lubricate itself. It will be painful without lube so dont be afraid to use a lot :) as for cleaning out just use the bathroom and wipe real good. hope this helps

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Use the bathroom before hand and if you're wondering if anal will hurt it's basically the same feeling as vaginal sex but the vagina stretches a bit more. If you're worried about pain use lubrication. But as for clearing yourself before hand. I really wouldn't use any medications or anything because you could mess up your system. I would just use the bathroom like normal and clean yourself real good and do it right after you use the bathroom. But I've never had problems with anal in the clear yourself out area.

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Start off slow, let him know to go slow until you feel comfortable going a bit faster

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Cleaning out: use an enema
Lube: silicon lube. Swiss navy or uber lube. Both are great brands!

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You can use an enema to ensure cleanliness

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All of these suggestions are super helpful. I would also recommend having your partner use a condom (in case you normally don't) just because it makes the clean up so much easier. Aside from that, go slow, relax, use lots of lube, and have fun :)

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