My partner and I are long distance, but we only have three more months until our wedding. He’s visiting friends/family right now for a week, and I don’t want to be selfish but I really miss him. Hes busier and he tries to make time for me, but he has to juggle me and his friends for a week. He could only talk for 20-25 minutes tonight on FaceTime (we’ve mostly just been texting because he’s busy) and after we hung up I cried because I missed him so much. Actually seeing his face made my heart hurt even more. I felt very selfish and ungrateful for crying, which only made it worse. I try to be understanding and supportive for him, but it’s definitely difficult to keep my emotions out of the way so as not to make him feel bad about something he can’t change (and something I don’t want him to change).

Does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with my feelings for three more months? It’s not that we’re having problems, it’s just that sometimes all I want is one hug from him and I can’t have it. I only have three months left, but it feels like a lifetime!