I am 6 weeks 4 days pregnant and my boyfriend wants me to abort, I am 27 and he is 28. I've been sitting on my decision for a week and a half now and the only reason I would do it is for him. I have a 5 year old son from a different father and he has a 5 year old from another woman. We have been together 6 months. I have always been against abortions (for myself) but very pro choice. We dont have the best living situation but also not the worst, I have a decent job that even allows me to bring my child to work with me, I started when my son was 3. He has an okay job, he doesn't make bank but it's not min wage. We aren't ready for this but I don't believe I'll ever be ready to do what he wants. I already know I can handle having a child in a less than ideal situation. He believes having the baby will destroy us and that I am choosing a blob over him. I already feel a connection with the life inside me and I cannot do this. I feel guilty for not doing it because of how much he wants it. I told him he could make a similar choice and leave with no responsibility. I know this is an abortion support group and essentially I am saying I won't do it, but I have no other place to go to about this without being judged. I'm judged for keeping it and judged for aborting it. All I know is what I want, it wasnt to be pregnant, but its definitely to not end my pregnancy. I know its ultimately my choice but has anyone been in a situation such as this? I wouldn't ever consider doing it for any man but I love him so much, and I feel guilty. Like I'd be ruining his life