So me and my s/o have a friend that we both knew prior to meeting eachother, he’s always been a sweet guy easy to get along with, he hasn’t had much luck with the ladies but recently he’s found a girl that likes him and they’re now together (although she does publicly put him down and likes everyone to know that she’s the bread winner, she has a nicer car etc) other than that she seems nice apart from eyeballing me when I’m talking to him rather than the group, anyway he’s been very different since being with her, he’s very sarcastic, ignorant and just boring to be around, we’ve been palming off them both coming round for some time but my partner bit the bullet and asked him to go fishing with him, he didn’t exactly have the time of his life as our friend was just moaning about life the whole time, then he let out that they’ve used love eggs when they’ve come round ours and he had a remote and was controlling it from his pocket because they wanted to spice up their love life, at first didn’t really sound that bad but after sitting down and talking about it I’m actually really pissed off, I feel like they’ve used us/dragged us into their sex life and not only that we have a 3 year old thats always been here when they come over which they always interact with so they’ve come round with the intention of doing nasty things in the company of our son, and also we noticed that she zones out quite a lot when you’re talking to her so now we’re thinking maybe that’s why...which in my opinion is rude, you expect friends to come round and be involved in conversation but it feels like they’ve used us for their pleasure and not actually been interested in talking to us as they have been secretly doing that right under our noses mid conversation I don’t want her coming round again squirming around on my sofa being all nasty, I’m all down for people getting freaky I’m not a prude but I just think it’s so selfish and gross what they’ve done, and now in the future we’re just going to be on edge thinking they’re fucking around in our company, ignorance is bliss he shouldn’t of told us.

Am I wrong?

Are they wrong?

Side note I don’t even do nasties on my sofa because it’s new and it’s my pride and joy, now I feel like I need to get it cleaned 🙄