Done with my sister. UPDATE

I just need to vent because my mind is racing. So I have 2 kids, aged 2 and 7 months. My husband and I have let our family know that we do not want anyone to kiss the children ANYWHERE, due to the fact that a lot of people in our family have cold sores aka Herpes. Everyone has been so understanding that it is deadly to young children or can make them very sick, not like an adult where it’s not really a big deal. Well. Every time we see my sister she’s always making remarks like “oh I can’t kiss the kids, I never done this with mine” etc. which is fine everyone does what they think is best for their child. My sister is known to get nasty oozing cold sores on her lips and today she made a surprise visit, asked to hold the baby , gave me a side eye and smirked then kissed my daughter on her fucking eye and laughed. My daughter turned 7 months today and here I am freaking out because my sister who KNOWS she has herpes kissed my kid. I told her if my kid gets sick or even get a cold sore I’m taking her to court for knowingly spreading an std and told her to leave my house and don’t come back. She laughed and tried to kiss my daughter again and then tried to kiss my son. You know what this bitch did next? SHE FUCKING SPIT ONTO MY CARPET and told me to have fun cleaning it up. I pray to god my daughter doesn’t get sick.

Update : so I just wanted to say my sister did not have an active outbreak from what I could tell. But my daughter woke up this morning like this. She has a doctors appointment tomorrow to discuss what needs to be done next.