He won’t have sex with me??

It’s been 2 and a half weeks since my boyfriend(?) Matt and I have had sex. I know that doesn’t sound like much time to some, however, we’re normally intimate every week. Sometimes twice a week.

We’ve just recently decided to see each other exclusively so it’s a relatively knew situationship. The day we admitted our feelings for each other, we had the most amazing sex. A week later, it was reallllly bad. Like, since then I’ve been questioning if he’s been with someone else because it was that bad. It was as if Matt forgot how to eat me out, he forgot which positions we enjoy, he couldn’t stay hard... it was very unusual, confusing, and honestly, made me feel like this new man that I really like was forcing himself to have sex with me. Which if you can imagine, made me feel disgusting in every way possible. He tried giving me head after he finished and it was horrible. It was like he didn’t know my vagina anymore. I felt like I was receiving a pitty blow job. In the middle of it, I said “stop”, pulled his head up, and went to the bathroom. He tried to avoid speaking about the alarmingly bad sex we just had. Matt wanted to continue hanging out, cuddling, and watch tv as if nothing happened.

I addressed the elephant in the room. He claimed it was just an off day, that it wasn’t me, he was tired from work, etc.,

Fast forward, we spent time together this week. A lot of kissing, cuddling, talking... but when I tried to make a move, he turned down sex and blamed it again on being tired and just not in the mood. We got dinner, talked for hours which felt more like seconds.. I asked him last night if he’s not attracted to me in that way anymore..

“Don’t be silly. I had an off day”

I’m not sure of what to do anymore. It’s surpassed extreme sexual frustration, and sincerely has me questioning if the thrill is just gone for him. I really like this guy. I can say that I can definitely see myself falling in love with him in the not so distant future. However, I want to make love with the one that I love.

any advice? Thanks, friends🖤