So my baby is 7 weeks old tomorrow. Since day 1 I’ve been doing everything minus 5 diaper changes, and the first week my oldest (12) was here before going on vacation. I’m breastfeeding only so I understand that’s all me. What is frustrating is not getting a break. My so will not get snot out of her nose he says “I will not do that to her.” He won’t change poopy diapers, if she’s sleeping when he gets home he goes and tells her hi loud enough to wake her up. If she’s screaming when he gets home and I’m trying to get to her and pass him he gets in my way for a kiss or a hug and won’t move unless he gets his way. He also tends to be in the way during baths or diaper changes where I have to ask him to move because he is right in the way. I’ve let him sleep in since day one sometimes I’ve gone with 36 hours no sleep, he showers every night I go days without showering and sometimes can’t even get dressed. When I had my 6 week appointment and was cleared to have sex little did I know he’s only been looking forward to that day waiting. But I’m no where in the mood for such a thing, I’m tired, my hair is a mess, I’m covered on spit up, I have a baby to feed. I read many people have resumed their sex lives after being cleared I just don’t see how. I just needed to vent. A lot of this has contributed to my ppd. My 12 year old is back and has been a great help till today with her time of the month she’s just been a pain today as well.