My boyfriend and I of over a year just broke up because we’ll both be going off to college in the next few weeks. It was completely heart shattering. Neither of us felt as if the relationship was over, but this is what’s best for the both of us to grow and develop as people independently, but with an open mind to us maybe getting back together at some point. I have some friends who have gone through the same thing and they suggested we take a couple weeks to not talk to each other to give each other some time and space to be sad with friends and family. I KNOW I’m going to be fine and happy soon enough but it just hurts so badly right now. Has anyone been through this and can share some advice or wisdom? Feeling very lost and hurt right now.